February 2007: A Short Month But Lots Happenings
FEBRUARY 2007: A SHORT MONTH BUT LOTS HAPPENING!
February arrived: it had been the driest January on record! The talk of drought already began! ….. Dad’s 90th Birthday on Feb 2. He is in great shape, except for his being legally blind from macular degeneration. We are not completely satisfied with the nursing home he’s in at the moment, but after looking at over a dozen other places that will accept patients on State Funds, he is better off staying exactly where he is! ….. Merrill’s 63rd Birthday was spent at a Cocktail Party arranged by Grace Cathedral at the Opera House before a performance of the San Francisco Ballet for church members. All did not turn out as expected and it was not a very good evening. Will go into all that some other time. I was not pleased; Merrill not quite as displeased as I was despite his having paid for the entire evening!?* Thank goodness we had celebrated a couple of days before at one of our favorite restaurants, Lalime’s, with a superb dinner. The restaurant just gets better and better! That turned out to be a better evening!! ….. The rains came Feb 7 and were with us on and off for the entire month bringing 5+”. That helped us get closer to our 2006-2007 Rainy Season goal of 23”. ….. Acquaintance Emmit Nolan died suddenly in New York City from a heart attack. I used to see him at least once every time I visited the Big Apple. He spent a lot of time in Tangier with James Lee. ….. Valentine’s Day we had a wonderful lunch at the famous Slanted Door with a gorgeous view of the Bay. Richard Miller & John Vinton treated for a celebration of Merrill’s Birthday! ….. Eric Svenson arrived from New York City for a 10-day stay. We had lots planned for him and we enjoyed all the events also. He nearly did not get here with Jet Blue cancelling hundreds of flights on Feb 15. He was lucky he was only 45-minutes late and not sitting on the runway for 10 or 11 hours!! ….. Ed Lamoureaux was with us for three days sleeping on the sofa. He wanted to be here for our Annual Oscar Party. Almost a “dud” this year with only 11 in attendance! ….. Down to Campbell (near San Jose) for a lovely lunch at Ron Bottini’s. He has a lovely ranch style house that his parents built in the 1950s. A huge back yard that is set up for the warm summer days down there. Eric was with us. Began with a flavorful mushroom risotto. Had a tasty mai mai with fresh asparagus. Then a berry/lady finger tart. A most delicious and leisurely lunch! ….. From Ron’s, we then proceeded 10 miles into San Jose to visit George D’Ardenay at his apricot ranch in the foothills of Mt. Hamilton. He still keeps the ranch going. We ventured up Mt. Hamilton to the restaurant, Mt. Hamilton Grand View Restaurant for more food. This time had to take most of it home as we were still full from Ron’s lunch. What a spectacular view of San Jose; all lit up and looking like a smaller version of Los Angeles! Despite the rain, it was clear and sparkling! San Jose is becoming known as “the Los Angeles of the North”! ….. Oscar Night: the 79th Annual Academy Awards: Only 11 came to the party; most were traveling this year that usually show up. A tough year to pick the winners since one movie did not dominate the nominations as in years past. Liked the show despite Ellen DeGeneris; clever skits introducing some categories and the dancers that were on in the shadows were great! So glad Martin Scorsese received his Oscar at last. …… Eric’s flight home was delayed a day since there was a big snowstorm in the Midwest and only 4” of snow in NYC. Jet Blue was becoming paranoid about all of this and decided to cancel 60+ flights. Eric stayed one more day; I just got caught up on household things and he relaxed. Then I received word that I won $500 in the PrimeTimer Raffle in Palm Springs which was drawn at their Valentine Gala! The extra $$$ always comes in handy for trips!! ….. Board of Directors Meeting getting “hot” again with flooded apartments in the building and all types of accusations floating around! Those who hate us do not go away!! Am glad I am off that Board; a couple of bitches still live in our building! Can’t wait for the next “chapter” in this situation (more on that as it develops and becomes more apparent!).
*As Barbra Streisand sang “People who need people, are the luckiest people in the world.” I am not sure I believe in that sentiment the older I get! Maybe because I am in my fifth year of retirement, I pay too much attention to people’s behavior! I then believe in telling them the truth about what turmoil has been caused. It gets one into trouble when the truth is spoken. I am finding that people cause a lot of turmoil, and I just will not put up with it any longer. Enough people I know are dieing; maybe I should not drive away more friends with not putting up with their crazy and rude behavior!?!?
THEATRE & MUSEUMS & CABARET & RESTAURANTS
FARM BOYS VERY GOOD
I had read the reviews for the New Conservatory Theatre’s production of the novel about gay guys from Wisconsin telling why they left their MidWest environment. The review was not all that great, but it all sounded quite intriguing. Was glad I attended. The play turned out to be very touching—I even shed a tear or two! Actor, Matt Socha was excellent as the guy from a small town in Wisconsin who inherits a farm from his first gay experience. Hope we hear more from Socha in the future.
OAKLAND MUSEUM: “The Art of Arthur & Lucia Mathews”
Lucia was born in the Oakland area; Arthur Mathews came out to the Bay Area in the early 1900s and began teaching at an art school. Lucia’s was his student; he liked her watercolors and fell in love with her. They sold their works in the early 1900s rather successfully and even were hired as muralists for public buildings and private homes. They then opened a business called, Furniture Shop. They incorporated their paintings into desks, tables, bureaus, etc. They even made most of their own hand-carved frames for their paintings—just stunning. I ventured to this exhibit twice I liked it so much.
Art & Spirit Gala: An Evening at the SAN FRANCISCO BALLET GOOD
This was a Gala sponsored by Grace Cathedral; a cocktail party leading up to a lecture and then the SF Ballet, which consisted of three works. “Firebird” was the main event of the evening and was really only a so-so production of this work that I had seen many times before. It just lacked spark and excitement this time around. The other two works were modern and ok.
American Conservatory Theatre’s HEDDA GABLER VERY GOOD
This is not one of my favorite plays: I believe that the main character of a play should be likeable. I have no sympathy for Hedda herself; all the suffering that she is going through, she brought upon herself. The production was nicely done and most of the acting was quite good. Veteran actress, Barbara Oliver, was surprisingly amateurish as the household maid. When Hedda goes into the next room to shoot herself, I am always rather glad! I remember seeing Maggie Smith as Hedda in London in a production directed by filmmaker Ingmar Bergman all done in bright red. Ms. Smith insisted that she shoot herself on stage in front of everyone! What a moment that was! Unforgettable!
ANN HAMPTON CALLAWAY and her sister, LIZ CALLOWAY EXCELLENT
I have seen Ann Hampton Callaway (she says she is the “love child” of Lionel Hampton and Cab Calloway!) a few times in cabaret and she is just great! A stinging sense of humor as well as a brilliant lyricist. She usually plays her own piano. Her all-American looking sister, Liz, has been on Broadway where I saw her too many years ago in “Baby”
Together they play off each other and both were very funny. They did a marvelous 15-minute duet singing “sister songs”! It brought down the house! Great show!
San Francisco Symphony’s OPEN REHEARSAL VERY GOOD
Not too much stopping and starting in this Open Rehearsal. Concertmaster, Alexander Barantshik was in charge; he conducted as well as played his famous violin. There were a lot of short pieces by Mozart, Bach, Shostakovich, Brittan, and Priazzola. An enjoyable morning.
The Slanted Door
This was Richard Miller and John Vinton’s treat for Merrill’s 63rd Birthday. Rather overpriced Asian food, but very tasty. Also the view from the restaurant is spectacular with the Bay Bridge right out the window and the Bay itself in front of us! Yum! Yum!
Downtown Restaurant
This restaurant was becoming one of our favorites but the running of the place has changed. They were rather busy so we had to sit in the bar area. Could not order off the regular menu. Had to order small plates of food which are really small and not very filling. Merrill, Eric and myself wanted to share. The bill was rather pricey for what we ordered.
Aroura Theatre’s THE BIRTHDAY PARTY GOOD
This was the 50th year celebration of Harold Pinter’s first success in London and New York. The play is still as puzzling as it ever was. However, it is wonderfully acted by a superb cast of local actors, especially local favorite, James Carpenter. So many things can be going on in this theatre piece; I guess we are meant to fill in the blanks, as well as Pinter’s famous pauses!??! Enjoyed it but was perplexed by what was happening!!!
Bistro Don Giovanni
Still one of our favorite restaurants in the Napa Valley. We chose a great day to eat up there with Eric; sunny and in the low 70s. We ate outdoors and had a very leisurely lunch. Giovanni greeted us at the door; Donna, his wife, was not cooking in the kitchen today. We shared a wonderful Pizza Margherita with a lovely dry white wine; then we also shared a fritto misto (wonderfully deep fried fish in a tasty batter) & rice balls with ham that grandma used to make (an old Neopolitan recipe); then I had boccantini pasta (difficult to find in the Bay Area) with carmelized onion in a rich red wine sauce (supposedly this is a dish from Roma). Had this course with some red wine. Then had a tangy lemon pudding that was a perfect ending to this delightful outdoor meal.
“Longford” on HBO EXCELLENT
If you can catch this true story of Lord Longford, I am sure you will be intrigued by the story. He is in charge of looking after the prison system in England in the 1960s. He gets involved with a pair of serial sexual predator killers. He was more interested in the woman’s role in the killings and it is even hinted at in the movie that he was falling in love with her even though he had a wife and daughter (Lady Antonia Fraiser) of his own. Full of suspense and it grabs your attention.
GUYS AND DOLLS GOOD
The Contra Costa Players put on this wonderful Frank Loesser musical. What a score! The book always seemed rather “hokey” to me however. The actors were ok, but they just tried to hard. They screeeeaaaamed every song! They knew when the laugh lines were coming and gave it too much emphasis! Major miscasting of a few roles from a physical point of view. Enjoyable, but I’ve seen better!! They put the orchestra in the stage left wing; the music came out rather muffled!!?? It is the music and the lyrics are what make this show great!! Didn’t anyone notice???
The pre-Broadway tryout of LEGALLY BLONDE, the Musical GOOD/FAIR
I have never seen the successful movie. After seeing the musical, I never want to see the movie. How did the movie get to make so much money; you do not want to know my answer to that question!! This is very, very, very much ado about very, very much of nothing! The melodies were not too bad, but the lyrics were rhyming constantly to the point of distraction!!!!! The lead is in pink, pink and more pink! Her cute little dog follows her around the stage all the time. There is even a Greek Chorus made up of her sorority sisters which no one can see but her; wish that was true for us in the audience! It is all a little too cute for its own good!! She goes to Harvard Law School and wins her first big case: Harvard should sue!!! It ought to be interesting to see how this does on Broadway when it opens in April at the Palace Theatre! I am sure it will run for the summer so all the suburban blonde teenage girls can have their matinee-at-the-theatre treat!!
PAULA WEST at the Plush Room EXCELLENT
Paula just cannot get any better! Chosen by New York/Time Out Magazine as the best Cabaret Act in NYC for 2006, this was such an upbeat show for her! Her voice is magnificent. Long may she sing and continue being the best jazz singer around today!
MANDY POTENKIN in Concert VERY GOOD
Every song becomes a five-act drama for Mandy Potenkin. His voice range is phenomenal and he is very, very enjoyable. However, the intense emotion that he projects to the audience becomes wearing after a while. He had some humorous stories to tell about his family and about his getting into show business. I hope after his successful TV show ends (“Criminal Minds”), he returns to the musical stage!!
February arrived: it had been the driest January on record! The talk of drought already began! ….. Dad’s 90th Birthday on Feb 2. He is in great shape, except for his being legally blind from macular degeneration. We are not completely satisfied with the nursing home he’s in at the moment, but after looking at over a dozen other places that will accept patients on State Funds, he is better off staying exactly where he is! ….. Merrill’s 63rd Birthday was spent at a Cocktail Party arranged by Grace Cathedral at the Opera House before a performance of the San Francisco Ballet for church members. All did not turn out as expected and it was not a very good evening. Will go into all that some other time. I was not pleased; Merrill not quite as displeased as I was despite his having paid for the entire evening!?* Thank goodness we had celebrated a couple of days before at one of our favorite restaurants, Lalime’s, with a superb dinner. The restaurant just gets better and better! That turned out to be a better evening!! ….. The rains came Feb 7 and were with us on and off for the entire month bringing 5+”. That helped us get closer to our 2006-2007 Rainy Season goal of 23”. ….. Acquaintance Emmit Nolan died suddenly in New York City from a heart attack. I used to see him at least once every time I visited the Big Apple. He spent a lot of time in Tangier with James Lee. ….. Valentine’s Day we had a wonderful lunch at the famous Slanted Door with a gorgeous view of the Bay. Richard Miller & John Vinton treated for a celebration of Merrill’s Birthday! ….. Eric Svenson arrived from New York City for a 10-day stay. We had lots planned for him and we enjoyed all the events also. He nearly did not get here with Jet Blue cancelling hundreds of flights on Feb 15. He was lucky he was only 45-minutes late and not sitting on the runway for 10 or 11 hours!! ….. Ed Lamoureaux was with us for three days sleeping on the sofa. He wanted to be here for our Annual Oscar Party. Almost a “dud” this year with only 11 in attendance! ….. Down to Campbell (near San Jose) for a lovely lunch at Ron Bottini’s. He has a lovely ranch style house that his parents built in the 1950s. A huge back yard that is set up for the warm summer days down there. Eric was with us. Began with a flavorful mushroom risotto. Had a tasty mai mai with fresh asparagus. Then a berry/lady finger tart. A most delicious and leisurely lunch! ….. From Ron’s, we then proceeded 10 miles into San Jose to visit George D’Ardenay at his apricot ranch in the foothills of Mt. Hamilton. He still keeps the ranch going. We ventured up Mt. Hamilton to the restaurant, Mt. Hamilton Grand View Restaurant for more food. This time had to take most of it home as we were still full from Ron’s lunch. What a spectacular view of San Jose; all lit up and looking like a smaller version of Los Angeles! Despite the rain, it was clear and sparkling! San Jose is becoming known as “the Los Angeles of the North”! ….. Oscar Night: the 79th Annual Academy Awards: Only 11 came to the party; most were traveling this year that usually show up. A tough year to pick the winners since one movie did not dominate the nominations as in years past. Liked the show despite Ellen DeGeneris; clever skits introducing some categories and the dancers that were on in the shadows were great! So glad Martin Scorsese received his Oscar at last. …… Eric’s flight home was delayed a day since there was a big snowstorm in the Midwest and only 4” of snow in NYC. Jet Blue was becoming paranoid about all of this and decided to cancel 60+ flights. Eric stayed one more day; I just got caught up on household things and he relaxed. Then I received word that I won $500 in the PrimeTimer Raffle in Palm Springs which was drawn at their Valentine Gala! The extra $$$ always comes in handy for trips!! ….. Board of Directors Meeting getting “hot” again with flooded apartments in the building and all types of accusations floating around! Those who hate us do not go away!! Am glad I am off that Board; a couple of bitches still live in our building! Can’t wait for the next “chapter” in this situation (more on that as it develops and becomes more apparent!).
*As Barbra Streisand sang “People who need people, are the luckiest people in the world.” I am not sure I believe in that sentiment the older I get! Maybe because I am in my fifth year of retirement, I pay too much attention to people’s behavior! I then believe in telling them the truth about what turmoil has been caused. It gets one into trouble when the truth is spoken. I am finding that people cause a lot of turmoil, and I just will not put up with it any longer. Enough people I know are dieing; maybe I should not drive away more friends with not putting up with their crazy and rude behavior!?!?
THEATRE & MUSEUMS & CABARET & RESTAURANTS
FARM BOYS VERY GOOD
I had read the reviews for the New Conservatory Theatre’s production of the novel about gay guys from Wisconsin telling why they left their MidWest environment. The review was not all that great, but it all sounded quite intriguing. Was glad I attended. The play turned out to be very touching—I even shed a tear or two! Actor, Matt Socha was excellent as the guy from a small town in Wisconsin who inherits a farm from his first gay experience. Hope we hear more from Socha in the future.
OAKLAND MUSEUM: “The Art of Arthur & Lucia Mathews”
Lucia was born in the Oakland area; Arthur Mathews came out to the Bay Area in the early 1900s and began teaching at an art school. Lucia’s was his student; he liked her watercolors and fell in love with her. They sold their works in the early 1900s rather successfully and even were hired as muralists for public buildings and private homes. They then opened a business called, Furniture Shop. They incorporated their paintings into desks, tables, bureaus, etc. They even made most of their own hand-carved frames for their paintings—just stunning. I ventured to this exhibit twice I liked it so much.
Art & Spirit Gala: An Evening at the SAN FRANCISCO BALLET GOOD
This was a Gala sponsored by Grace Cathedral; a cocktail party leading up to a lecture and then the SF Ballet, which consisted of three works. “Firebird” was the main event of the evening and was really only a so-so production of this work that I had seen many times before. It just lacked spark and excitement this time around. The other two works were modern and ok.
American Conservatory Theatre’s HEDDA GABLER VERY GOOD
This is not one of my favorite plays: I believe that the main character of a play should be likeable. I have no sympathy for Hedda herself; all the suffering that she is going through, she brought upon herself. The production was nicely done and most of the acting was quite good. Veteran actress, Barbara Oliver, was surprisingly amateurish as the household maid. When Hedda goes into the next room to shoot herself, I am always rather glad! I remember seeing Maggie Smith as Hedda in London in a production directed by filmmaker Ingmar Bergman all done in bright red. Ms. Smith insisted that she shoot herself on stage in front of everyone! What a moment that was! Unforgettable!
ANN HAMPTON CALLAWAY and her sister, LIZ CALLOWAY EXCELLENT
I have seen Ann Hampton Callaway (she says she is the “love child” of Lionel Hampton and Cab Calloway!) a few times in cabaret and she is just great! A stinging sense of humor as well as a brilliant lyricist. She usually plays her own piano. Her all-American looking sister, Liz, has been on Broadway where I saw her too many years ago in “Baby”
Together they play off each other and both were very funny. They did a marvelous 15-minute duet singing “sister songs”! It brought down the house! Great show!
San Francisco Symphony’s OPEN REHEARSAL VERY GOOD
Not too much stopping and starting in this Open Rehearsal. Concertmaster, Alexander Barantshik was in charge; he conducted as well as played his famous violin. There were a lot of short pieces by Mozart, Bach, Shostakovich, Brittan, and Priazzola. An enjoyable morning.
The Slanted Door
This was Richard Miller and John Vinton’s treat for Merrill’s 63rd Birthday. Rather overpriced Asian food, but very tasty. Also the view from the restaurant is spectacular with the Bay Bridge right out the window and the Bay itself in front of us! Yum! Yum!
Downtown Restaurant
This restaurant was becoming one of our favorites but the running of the place has changed. They were rather busy so we had to sit in the bar area. Could not order off the regular menu. Had to order small plates of food which are really small and not very filling. Merrill, Eric and myself wanted to share. The bill was rather pricey for what we ordered.
Aroura Theatre’s THE BIRTHDAY PARTY GOOD
This was the 50th year celebration of Harold Pinter’s first success in London and New York. The play is still as puzzling as it ever was. However, it is wonderfully acted by a superb cast of local actors, especially local favorite, James Carpenter. So many things can be going on in this theatre piece; I guess we are meant to fill in the blanks, as well as Pinter’s famous pauses!??! Enjoyed it but was perplexed by what was happening!!!
Bistro Don Giovanni
Still one of our favorite restaurants in the Napa Valley. We chose a great day to eat up there with Eric; sunny and in the low 70s. We ate outdoors and had a very leisurely lunch. Giovanni greeted us at the door; Donna, his wife, was not cooking in the kitchen today. We shared a wonderful Pizza Margherita with a lovely dry white wine; then we also shared a fritto misto (wonderfully deep fried fish in a tasty batter) & rice balls with ham that grandma used to make (an old Neopolitan recipe); then I had boccantini pasta (difficult to find in the Bay Area) with carmelized onion in a rich red wine sauce (supposedly this is a dish from Roma). Had this course with some red wine. Then had a tangy lemon pudding that was a perfect ending to this delightful outdoor meal.
“Longford” on HBO EXCELLENT
If you can catch this true story of Lord Longford, I am sure you will be intrigued by the story. He is in charge of looking after the prison system in England in the 1960s. He gets involved with a pair of serial sexual predator killers. He was more interested in the woman’s role in the killings and it is even hinted at in the movie that he was falling in love with her even though he had a wife and daughter (Lady Antonia Fraiser) of his own. Full of suspense and it grabs your attention.
GUYS AND DOLLS GOOD
The Contra Costa Players put on this wonderful Frank Loesser musical. What a score! The book always seemed rather “hokey” to me however. The actors were ok, but they just tried to hard. They screeeeaaaamed every song! They knew when the laugh lines were coming and gave it too much emphasis! Major miscasting of a few roles from a physical point of view. Enjoyable, but I’ve seen better!! They put the orchestra in the stage left wing; the music came out rather muffled!!?? It is the music and the lyrics are what make this show great!! Didn’t anyone notice???
The pre-Broadway tryout of LEGALLY BLONDE, the Musical GOOD/FAIR
I have never seen the successful movie. After seeing the musical, I never want to see the movie. How did the movie get to make so much money; you do not want to know my answer to that question!! This is very, very, very much ado about very, very much of nothing! The melodies were not too bad, but the lyrics were rhyming constantly to the point of distraction!!!!! The lead is in pink, pink and more pink! Her cute little dog follows her around the stage all the time. There is even a Greek Chorus made up of her sorority sisters which no one can see but her; wish that was true for us in the audience! It is all a little too cute for its own good!! She goes to Harvard Law School and wins her first big case: Harvard should sue!!! It ought to be interesting to see how this does on Broadway when it opens in April at the Palace Theatre! I am sure it will run for the summer so all the suburban blonde teenage girls can have their matinee-at-the-theatre treat!!
PAULA WEST at the Plush Room EXCELLENT
Paula just cannot get any better! Chosen by New York/Time Out Magazine as the best Cabaret Act in NYC for 2006, this was such an upbeat show for her! Her voice is magnificent. Long may she sing and continue being the best jazz singer around today!
MANDY POTENKIN in Concert VERY GOOD
Every song becomes a five-act drama for Mandy Potenkin. His voice range is phenomenal and he is very, very enjoyable. However, the intense emotion that he projects to the audience becomes wearing after a while. He had some humorous stories to tell about his family and about his getting into show business. I hope after his successful TV show ends (“Criminal Minds”), he returns to the musical stage!!